Comments on: Tips for Confronting a Cheating Spouse

By: justontime

justontime — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 22:05:50 +0000

This is a really good article with excellent well reasoned advice. It should have a more prominent position on the site.

By: deltic

deltic — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 20:50:11 +0000

That was a very good article and some excellent advice, especially the bit about not reacting emotionally with a confrontation before you have the evidence.

By: SageMother

SageMother — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 17:46:05 +0000

I.D.

I bet those who figure out their “jones” are also those who start sky diving for relief!

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 04:18:47 +0000

SageMother, serial cheaters get carried away with “feeling in love”. When it goes away, they have to try to find it again.

By: SageMother

SageMother — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 18:10:07 +0000

Don’t you wonder why these guys even get married in the first place? I can’t imagine that they aren’t aware of their nature before the affair.

Guys really should be honest with themselves and accept their inability to be monogamous.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Mon, 05 May 2008 01:00:45 +0000

Green-Moo, that is the worst scum on this earth. How could he have done that to her? We all know that men have more sexual urges than women do, but whatever happened with “til death do us part”?

By: Green-Moo

Green-Moo — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 06:11:41 +0000

I get very cross when I hear justifications for cheating which place the ‘blame’ with the innocent party. A friend of mine’s partner cheated whilst she was ill & used her illness as an excuse to go elsewhere. Scum.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 01:19:29 +0000

Green-Moo, I also don’t care for pathetic excuses and there will not ever be a good enough reason why he had to have sex with someone else!

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 01:13:32 +0000

Calypso, we all get lost in the why’s sometime…. and I know I’ve been there crying my eyes out saying “why did he do it?” when I should have been concentrating on the fact that he did the most horrible thing to me!

By: Green-Moo

Green-Moo — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 10:45:08 +0000

Calypso, to be quite honest, WHY the cheater did it would be immaterial to me. If they’d had a problem I would have hoped that they’d have come to me rather than gone behind my back.