Doctor Neder:

I am in a serious relationship of almost a year. We have one major problem that continues to come up. When we were first dating, we’d been out maybe a dozen times and slept together maybe 6 times, had no conversations about being exclusive and at a party I was intimate with another man. This was a one-time occurrence and my boyfriend and I continued to date and it evolved into the relationship we now enjoy.

About 6 months ago I casually mentioned this other encounter, not realizing what a big deal it would become. My boyfriend was devastated and could not believe that I would have sex with someone else while we were dating even though it was very early on and no talk of exclusivity was ever had at that point.

Don’t you ever wonder what goes on in the mind of a person who puts up with a cheater? Especially a cheater with a history of cheating on all of his previous relationships? I refuse to understand how anyone smart enough to put two + two together can still come up short of the right answer.

I recently read an article about the “other woman” who finally got “the man” and then he cheats on her. She is totally getting what she deserves because she was stupid enough to get involved with a married man. Reality has not dawned on her that he did not give up everything - “his wife and daughter” - to be with her. His wife probably kicked him out and he had nowhere else to go. So while she’s now supporting him because he has no money, he’s sleeping around in plain view.

Most people don’t ever intend to have an extramarital affair. In fact, most who have, say they consider having an affair is against their values.

So, how do so many good people end up having affairs and shattering their marriages? Well, mostly it is because they do not know the pitfalls and danger signs.

Danger #1 — Getting too chummy with a coworker. Tip #1 — Keep conversations at the water cooler and else where casual and do not get personal. Once personal information is shared you are developing intimacy with someone other than your spouse. Most affairs do not start out with the married partner intending to have an affair, they end up as a result of a slipper slope.

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So take the scenario you are in a fantastic relationship- you have met the girl / guy of your dreams, and life is fantastic - except for one thing..

You’ve found the evidence, have confronted your spouse, and are now trying to figure out if the marriage can be repaired. You are wondering if you will ever love, trust or be able to get over the hurt, rage and jealousy which results from discovering your mate had an affair. You feel all alone in your grief and are wondering what comes next in this process. Well, let me walk you through the steps, and what you can expect to find down this long, dark road toward recovery.

#1 The initial shock. This is the phase where you are simply in disbelief. You cannot comprehend that your spouse was physically or emotionally intimate with someone other than yourself. You start piecing the puzzle together and realize that so much of your reality was actually a lie.