I have thought long and hard about this situation and know that the OW is just as much to blame as the WH. I imagined myself before God trying to justify that I am not at fault for having an affair with a married man because I didn’t make vows to his wife. Adultery is adultery whether both affair partners are married or only one is married.

I try to make decisions in my life with the thought in mind that I will have to answer to God one day, and the bs justifications that are made down here on earth are not going to cut it with God.

Really, you have to feel sorry for some of these other women. There must be something going on in their minds for them to settle for less than nothing with a married man. They are willing participants in the destruction of the marriage. How can you state that you love someone but want to break up their family? Isn’t love about putting the other person first? How can you state that you care about a man’s children when the reality is that you want to take their father away?

In the end, the other woman is left with a broken man who handles his problem by cheating. The other woman claims that she takes care of the married man. Yet, she doesn’t have to pick up his underwear from the floor, or wash skid marks out of them. She doesn’t have to take care of the household that he lives in. When they do eventually live together, that’s when she realizes that she won the man, but lost the war. She is now a wife, leaving the other woman position open for another woman. And then the first other woman, now the wife, finds herself in the first wife’s shoes, wondering what she did wrong.

Until people can honor the committments other people make, we will always have other woman.

My husband tries to get back with me, but I’m at a good place in my life. I will be graduating from college soon. My life has changed so much and God has been with me every step of the way. The other woman in my situation has moved on to her next victim, who she didn’t inform about her STD. She was seeing this new guy while still living with my husband. My husband was the one who told him about the STD. Now he knows how it feels to be cheated on. Cheat with you, cheat on you.

Victor
I am not trying to crowd your space any more. I wish you both the best in life. Do not worry about me because I always land on my feet. Don’t be sorry that I feel this way because ultimately it does not matter. All that matters is that you continue to do whatever makes you happy. I just wish we would have ended this last year. I am hurting so the selfish part of me wants you to feel my pain, frustration, and anger. The nonselfish part of me want you to feel absoultely nothing. I wish I could just find someone as good as you one day. I hope that he loves me like you love your wife. One day I will be as lucky as you to find such a special person. But for now I just want to move on with my life. Have a great weeekend. I will not disturb you.

You should get a life and stop accusing me of things. I have no idea who you are. Are you sleeping with my husband and this is your sick (non grown-up) way of telling me?

DO NOT SEND ME ANY MORE MESSAGES!!!!!!

I work with you and know that some of the stuff that is here is true. I have seen you and him (hubbie) and knew that something was going on along with some others. Nothing was said but when the information was read on line, we knew it but could not confirm it. The letters was on the vehicles and we said nothing but it is true so what the others are saying is not trashing but telling the truth. We know that you are still talking to him (hubbie) and hear that you are trashing wife who he has not left and never did and she never left him according to what he has said and is saying. Sounds like you were the other woman and might still be but you should stop because I would do the same thing as she has, exposing you and him for what you both are. He just wised up knowing that his wife is and always has been important to him and you were good for what you were at the time but not any more now that she is back…you know what that is don’t you. See you at work bubbly and everything

Again, the husband is cheating because he has found the right woman or women to hear the sob stories and fall for him. Beg and cry when he can’t come to see her when she wants, spend the holidays when she needs him, but sneak around like the snake they are…slithering around in the grass and lie down when she is given the command to….LIE, TURN, GET UP ON ALL FOURS…lovely.

I say as wives, let him stay with the other woman because she won’t go home with him to meet the mother and family, she won’t get to get into the church with the wedding dress for sure, but she will definitely get the load on her back which is what you all are suppose to do. Ahhhh, who cares if he doesn’t stop seeing the other woman so long as he keep paying for the wife right Princess Other Woman, lol.

Ladies, come on.

Sasha has made her point made to all. Confronting the other woman is not stupid but fun and there should be no HATE for them. We all made promises to be faithful before God but when you choose to be with husband then that says a lot about them, they can’t find one and need someone else’s…what a shame. Again, happy or not when you choose to be with someone else’s husband then it’s not God’s fault but yours. He is cheating because he’s a man and found the right “other woman” to lie with…that’s why they are called the other women. For me, it’s great because when I don’t want to be the one on the back, it’s your job to do it. Makes for great fun…then to see them beg for him to come over and cry when he doesn’t, absolutely wonderful! Now, how can Sasha be the holier than though and invokes God’s name in a conversation as this…adulterer and that is one of the commandments right?

What a role model for the daughters for these other women posting? I don’t know about the other wives but I’d be happy that he is being entertained by the other woman because that makes our jobs easier…our legs closed and theirs opened! Come on wives, let’s clap for the other women and let them be our back jobs, I know I don’t mind…not anymore.

People, let’s out the other women who whine when others know their names. He is happy now that he has extra and I for one, am not mad about it so Sasha, don’t be disgraced about the stories but be a disgrace because you as the other woman and the other women who are posting stoops low, well lie low to be the other woman. Remember that you will lose him like you got him…Sasha. And oh, don’t be emotional about it, be happy because it was fun while the sneaking was going on so why be emotional when others find out about it, lol.

Why all the HATE for the “other woman”? Your husband promised God to be faithful to you, not the other woman. Stop blaming the other woman and look at the relationship you have or had with your husband.

Confronting the other woman is just stupid. Now you have the face of the woman spending the time you used to get with your husband. Most men do not and will not end the relationship with the other woman. If you are going to stay with your husband, do not confront the other woman.

I have read so many lies throughout this these postings. Most of you are using fake names so be honest. Stop lying to other and yourself stating “my husband and I were/are so happy”. If you were so happy, why is your husband cheating? Why are you confronting the other woman? Why are you posting your business and the business of others for the world to see. It is a disgrace some of the tear-jerking stories I have read.

Many of you need to move on because you may be blocking God’s blessings by staying in unhealthy marriages.

And for you HAPPY wives, here is a bit of information. The same thing you did to get the man, you still need to do that to keep him. What you will not do another woman will. So please to whining about your husband and handle your business.