Comments on: Five Warning Signs of Wife Infidelity

By: kernow

kernow — Mon, 11 May 2009 20:58:53 +0000

I wasn’t impressed with that article, most of the so called signs could be completely innocent. Several of them could be applied to me and I have never had an affair in my life!

By: Liza

Liza — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 23:33:27 +0000

I will admit at times I do become complacent, but with work and baby and everything else, sometimes it gets too much.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Tue, 01 Apr 2008 03:01:02 +0000

AMC, we are all human and in some shape of form we want to know that we are accepted everyday of our lives.

Sometimes we just tend to forget that eventhough we expect that acceptance and the caring from our partner, that we, in return, must give them the same. Because they are just like us with the same needs.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:58:52 +0000

Liza, that’s so true also.

I guess when it comes to looking for the signs of cheating…. it’s a no win situation.

Either you are looking for something that is not there, or you could be right that something is just not quite right.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 16:29:26 +0000

Tater03, I think it’s called emotional transference. That’s when the person who is cheating is really looking for the same response from his/her spouse.

If they are not getting it at home, then they go and find a substitute.

And that’s all it is when everything is said and done with, it’s a SUBSTITUTE.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 21:02:59 +0000

Liza, that absolutely drives me crazy and insane. Same thing with my husband too.

We both have friends of the opposite sex that call at weird hours and we’ve just made a rule not to pick up our phone after a certain time. So that he doesn’t get mad and I don’t get mad. The compromise reall has worked very well!

By: amc

amc — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 02:58:26 +0000

tator03, You’re right. Sometimes we get so caught up in “life” that we forget to say and do nice things for our significant others. We get too comfortable and think that our spouses know that we love, need, and cherish them and there’s no need to say or show it. I guess that’s when they go out and get what they want but aren’t getting at home from someone else…still not a good enough excuse for cheating, but nonetheless, a huge reason why affairs happen.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 18:45:50 +0000

MollyL, exactly!

When we want to impress someone we really go out of our way to change to make us more attractive.

In the case of your brother-in-law, it won’t be long until he stops doing it now that he’s moved in and got the girl. Then, just like me, he’ll probably go back to wearing ripped jeans and t-shirts…. and the vicious cycle begins again.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 18:35:35 +0000

Liza, I think if you do that on a regular basis and it’s just in your nature to want to look fantastic, that’s great! So, your significant other is probably used to seeing you like that most of the time.

Now, I think he will think something is up if you started wearing shorter skirts, or too much perfume if you don’t normally do that.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:54:41 +0000

SageMother, that is so very sweet of you, and yes, you are right, taking time to do unexpected things can reap the best rewards in a relationship.

Wow, he must have been really surprised. I think I will do that on my hubby’s birthday in October.