Comments on: Cheating Men Can’t Lie When You Have The Facts

By: poster25

poster25 — Fri, 22 May 2009 03:00:05 +0000

I’ve known both types of “the other woman.” Surprisingly, the type who did not know that the man was married still continues to stay in the relationship about 90% of the time. Leaving would be a hard thing to do, but the right thing to do.

As for the other type, there are so many “hoochiefied” women that only want to date married men. They know well in advance that they are with married men.

So really it goes both ways. In this situation, this other woman had no clue. It would have been interesting to see what decision she made.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 04:30:04 +0000

Green-Moo, you know, maybe I shouldn’t be making a lot of assumptions on the part of the “other woman” because I’ve never been one.

I’m sure that they also feel betrayed as much as “the woman” and who is to say that they haven’t tried to leave. It’s so hard for us to stay away from things that are bad for us and the concept is the same.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 03:47:50 +0000

mollyL, you are right. Not every woman who becomes the other woman knows right away that they are the “other woman”. They might even be thinking that their man is cheating on them because of all the signs that they see.

I do know so many women who fall into that trap where the man promises to leave his woman for them, and it rarely happens unless she dumps him.

By: Green-Moo

Green-Moo — Thu, 22 May 2008 07:28:11 +0000

I think where it becomes hard is when the other woman isn’t aware at first that her boyfriend is married. She will realise eventually perhaps, but by then she may be in love with him and find it that much more difficult to walk away.

By: mollyL

mollyL — Wed, 21 May 2008 17:38:58 +0000

Diva, I was not taking any of the blame which sets square on the husband’s shoulders; I have never intimated the husband wasn’t the one to blame. Neither did I intimate that ALL other women are innocent. My point, as verified in the above story, is that not all other women are aware that their boyfriend is married.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 21:56:02 +0000

Green-Moo, I’m sure that the ‘other woman’ is not dumb, and there will definitely be a time they she will realize that there is something different about her relationship.

That’s when she needs to make a choice, and sometimes it’s not for the best.

By: Green-Moo

Green-Moo — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 20:43:42 +0000

I’m sure most ‘other women’ must at least suspect that their boyfriend isn’t as single as he makes out.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 17:51:25 +0000

mollyL, do they think we have stupid written across our foreheads?

For every woman out there that has been cheated on, don’t buy into the crap that the “other woman” is an innocent third party. But also, don’t fall into the trap that your husband is innocent in all of this either. He is as responsible for this problem.

By: mollyL

mollyL — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 17:56:44 +0000

This puts paid to the argument that every woman who is having an “affair” is an evil, scheming bitch. More times than not, it seems, the “other woman” is an innocent party who had no clue her “boyfriend” was someone else’s husband.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 02:05:29 +0000

Green-Moo, LOL! I am a big fan of the reverse phone number search.