The most common thing which makes a person think negative thoughts are why are things not happening as they were supposed to be? Instead of finding the core reason for things not working the way wanted, an individual will start blaming others for it. Negativity is highly observed at work place. While giving out promotions if your friend goes ahead of you, you start feeling jealous and wish that you should have been in that post rather than him. The more you are concentrating on others happiness and enjoyment towards work, the more negative thoughts come to your mind. This is not a case with only employees as negativity even eats into an employer too. The competition from other companies and the market pressure makes people think of ways by which he or she can stop competition and never have to worry about it. Making a single competitor lose does not mean that you are not going to face any more problems. If not today then tomorrow a new competitor or the same will rise.
Negativity does not restrict itself to work only, but in personal relationships too it affects every individual falling in its prey. When some relationship breaks either there is a genuine reason or just simple misunderstanding. Misunderstandings are caused due to negative thoughts coming in your mind. Suppose your partner comes home late from work and you just bombard him or her with questions like where were you? Why are you late? With whom were you? The amount of “why” questions you ask the more negativity you possess with you. This can happen due to less trust among partners or low faith in themselves. Negativity has even corrupted players and athletics, the will and wishes for winning makes them take drugs or steroids for the extra energy and often end up in doping cases. Later they blame their coach or physicians for doing so.
The best cure for negative thoughts not reaching you is treatment through hypnosis. Hypnosis has been very effective in healing negativity. Following simple steps as instructed can help get rid of negativity. The first method or the starting method is the pre-talk where you can understand what is the pattern of negative thinking or how is it operating in you. You can download mp3 or videos from the Internet regarding hypnosis and find a way to live happily without negativity. The treatment is simple where a person feels restful, relaxed and claim, which in return makes him or her comfortable to fight against inner negativity. So what are waiting for make sure you download the mp3 today itself for being positive in life.
About the Author – Shanat Kuphur
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sharon,
thanks for your comment on my blog. by the way, this technique – positive thinking, is what i exactly used when my server went down. it never failed to help me whenever i encounter problems. i never used hypnosis before, though. i might as well try it when i get the chance
Jessie, ha-ha-ha. Just keep on praying it works.
Me, got a lot of those moments where I need a server miracle.
Negativity normally starts from somewhere, this “thing” has a big impact on one’s life and play out itself in the individuals day to day life
I’m a big believer in positive thinking, or at the very least, ACTING as if you’re positive. It’s like smiling, it’s catching!!
If hypnosis is a way forward with this then I’m all in favour of it. I suppose banishing negativity is a habit to break & hypnosis is commonly used to break other ‘bad’ habits like smoking so why not?
Green-Moo
Negativity works almost the way that cancer does. Negativity can start in one tiny part of you, and then, like cancer, starts eating away and soon it invades every part of you.
Liza, relationships really can make a person bitter and negative.
And they don’t leave it at home!
They bring it to work, out to girl’s night out and other places where we don’t want to see them.
mollyL,and once it invades every part of you, it starts consuming the lives of everyone else around you.
It’s such a vicious cycle.
Green-Moo, hypnosis is definitely the wave of future habitual cures I think.
Pretty soon there will be walk in clinics on every block (like Starbucks) to cure our daily ails.
I, personally, would walk in if there was one in my neighborhood.
I love the idea of a hypnosis clinic in every Starbucks! I would certainly be going for a chai much more often. How much do you think they should charge for a nice weight loss hypnosis?
mollyL, weight loss hypnosis and a chai with whip cream won’t work…. I think
Diva, whip cream on top of a nice hot chai sounds luscious! I know it doesn’t work with weight loss, with or without with hypnosis, but I can dream, can’t I?
mollyL, it does sound so luscious… I actually stumbled on a music video that’s created all these body paint urges that maybe hynposis can get of my psyche…
Molly you are right, negativity does eat away at you until it becomes disabling. I agree with GreenMoo about the power of positive thinking. I would be interested to read more about using hypnosis to get rid of negativity.
How is hypnosis more effective than redirecting your attention to another task that can be accomplished or to a more enjoyable activity?
justontime, I don’t really know much about short term and long term lasting effects of hypnosis, but I hear that it can give you an edge in clearing your mind of negative thoughts.
SageMother, I guess sometimes people get too focused on a particular habit that it is hard for them to get into a mindspace needed to make the change.
I know prople who have found hypnosis helpful for things like giving up smoking. I tend to agree with SageMother that redirecting your thoughts is a more useful way to deal with negativity.
One thing is certain, people can change if they are truly ready to.
I have always seen hypnosis as that calming voice giving you permission to do that which is dearest to your heart at the moment.
It can’t control anyone, and has little influence on the unwilling and unprepared.
Sage it is odd how differently two people can view the same thing. I have always thought of hypnosis as dangerous because it allows someone to interfere with your thoughts and actions.