Don’t Get Caught Cheating On Your Spouse - Book Tells You How
“The art to infidelity and cheating to perfection has finally arrived! Designing Infidelity is a complete, informative reference guide that outlines the do’s and don’ts, fine tunes your awareness to the details that most often slip through the cracks and leads you through the preparation and survival process of your extramarital affair. Written by an authority on deception and extramarital relationships, this guide provides you with first hand factual information and knowledge that can only be shared through the very personal experiences of people who have dabbled in the art of domestic treachery and duplicity. Open the book on everything you needed to know about Infidelity and lessen the odds of getting caught.”
If it just isn’t the most absurd thing that I’ve ever read ….. pretty much, this book covers everything that you need to do on how a cheater can get away with having an extramarital affair! And it comes with guidelines on how to fool your significant other that a.) you’re not cheating b.) you’re really at work pulling in massive overtime and c.) really, you’re just too tired to have sex.
So, maybe there are men and women out there who might find this reference book helpful because a.) they’re just too stupid to realize that they are hurting someone by doing this b.) they don’t feel special enough in their current relationship and c.) they’re absolutely clueless. Take your pick …. and feel free to add more choices.
Are we really that gullible?
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34 Responses to “Don’t Get Caught Cheating On Your Spouse - Book Tells You How”
November 15th, 2007 at 3:49 pm
Thanks for dropping by!
November 15th, 2007 at 8:29 pm
Wow, I can’t believe that somebody actually wrote something like this. I just can’t see many people actually reading this.
November 16th, 2007 at 2:37 pm
I cannot believe someone wrote this either. I guess it would not only help the cheater but it also could work the other way by exsposing there so called little secrets.
November 19th, 2007 at 9:08 am
I am not surprised that someone wrote this book. Not everyone views fidelity as necessary for a marriage to work. I think that those who feel this way should marry those who either agree or at least consent to this type of arrangement, which eliminate the concept of “cheating” for their marriage.
Since I haven’t read the book, I have to assume that it is aimed at those who have not married into an open arrangement and are looking for ways to avoid divorce and the financial impact that would have.
The author is probably making a killing on the book!
LOL
November 19th, 2007 at 4:29 pm
SageMother, I think you are right that if you do not believe that marriage should include fidelity, that should be discussed beforehand.
I’m sure the book will sell for the sheer controversy of it, not necessarily because people want to cheat.
November 19th, 2007 at 6:10 pm
I do agree that you if you want an open marriage that both partner’s should be in agreement. I just think that it is sad that someone can make money off of a book like this.
November 19th, 2007 at 8:00 pm
A person who marries or gets into a steady relationship and feels like they still have to cheat must not have really loved the other person in the first place, so why not just simply let them go, rather than live a lie?
November 20th, 2007 at 10:00 am
But,
if the marriage is understood to be open, for both parties, the concept of cheating no longer exists!
November 21st, 2007 at 1:04 pm
I agree that if it is understood between both parties it is not considered cheating but it doesn’t seem to me that this book is directed to them.
November 26th, 2007 at 12:16 pm
Could you imagine the look on a mother-in-law’s face if she found that book in the book shelf during Christmas dinner?
November 28th, 2007 at 3:19 pm
That would be just to funny. My mother in law loves to nose around when she is here this would definently teach her to not nose around.
November 29th, 2007 at 11:16 pm
Jewel, LOL! If there is a market for the book, there are definitely readers.
December 1st, 2007 at 8:29 pm
SageMother, exactly! The problem though is that even if both parties agree to an open relationship, somewhere along the line, people change.
What was okay last week, might not be okay today.
I know, the writer is probably making a killing over this.
December 2nd, 2007 at 1:55 pm
Katharina, I guess you can call me traditional, but for me, marriage is all about monogamy.
People not planning on being monogamous should never get married. That way they can move from one partner to another without the complication of splitting assets or kids.
December 2nd, 2007 at 1:56 pm
Trick-r-treat, I so agree with you on that one. People though sometimes have a problem with doing the right thing. And people have a problem talking about the truth.
If the everyone just did, the world would definitely be a better place!
December 2nd, 2007 at 2:29 pm
SageMother, then what’s the point of being married?
December 3rd, 2007 at 12:03 pm
For many it’s the ability to pool resources and bring what ever measure of security they agree on, to life. The parameters of “marriage” need not have the same meanings for all. Each couple is free to define their marriage contract as they see fit.
Those who require monogamy within their marriages are still free to do so.
December 3rd, 2007 at 9:07 pm
i really think it would be better if a cheating spouse talks to her/his soon-to-be ex-partner and part ways in a civilized way. that way, nobody gets hurt if they engage in separate commitments with other people.
December 4th, 2007 at 4:50 pm
I would agree that marriage means different things to different people. I know people that are married but still each keep their own checks and contribute to the running of the home equally. Now for me that just wouldn’t work for us.
December 6th, 2007 at 11:25 am
These differences in expectations tend to get forgotten when people react to something that seems scandalous. It’s good to take a deep breath and allow those who feel differently from ourselves, to enjoy their relationships as they wish, with consenting partners.
December 8th, 2007 at 12:57 am
SageMother,good points. Every marriage is different, and with each couple comes different expectations of each other. Everybody has their own reasons for wanting to get married, even if it’s not monogamy.
December 9th, 2007 at 3:24 pm
Personally to each their own. Their the ones in the marriage so if it works for them who am I to say that they are wrong? That’s just the way I look at it. I may not understand the way they do it but that doesn’t mean I have to do it that way.
December 9th, 2007 at 5:34 pm
I am not surprised that this book was written, wouldn’t be surprised if it even massed decent amount of sales. It just seems that more and more people don’t want to stay faithful.
December 14th, 2007 at 10:09 pm
SageMother, now you are just looking for trouble there…..
December 15th, 2007 at 9:45 pm
SageMother, I guess “rules” in a relationship changes as it becomes much more maturer.
I do have a friend who agreed to have an open marriage in the beginning. She eventually left him after he decided that he couldn’t leave the swinging lifestyle behind. This after they’ve been together 10 years and have three children.
So, I think even if both parties agree in the beginning. Life still evolves and something like this happens.
December 15th, 2007 at 10:01 pm
Tater03, I guess when both are consenting adults, it’s ok to some point.
But this book talks about those that sneak behind each others back and do the dirty.
December 15th, 2007 at 10:02 pm
3Plus3, I think I can honestly say that we’ve all been there trying to figure out whether to cheat or not.
I’ve even fallen the rut before.
December 16th, 2007 at 1:19 pm
All relationships change with time, even those that haven’t been open marriages. The strength of any relationship is only as great as the desire to build and maintain a life together.
December 16th, 2007 at 2:14 pm
I just don’t get in the end why anyone would not just leave the relationship before cheating? I mean have respect for yourself and the other person in the relationship.
December 16th, 2007 at 4:28 pm
SageMother, that’s true. Can you just imagine life without the relationship hassles?
December 16th, 2007 at 4:30 pm
Tater03, because people who cheat always take the cowardly way out. Half of the time, they don’t really want to leave their current partner. They’re just looking for a little bit of something-something on the side.
December 28th, 2007 at 8:10 pm
There are hundreds of websites that help cheaters cheat. Just type “affair tips” in google and you’ll see.
Cheating made my marriage better. Why couldn’t I leave?
3 reasons.
1.He has money
2.His family has money
3.He doesn’t beat me anymore
Now I have my fun on the side while playing Suzie Homemaker to everyone else. It works for me!
January 1st, 2008 at 5:25 pm
Jessie, I’m not really sure if that is achievable all the time. When two people part ways or find themselves wanting to leave their current partner, most of the time, the final conversations together are never rational.
January 15th, 2008 at 1:57 pm
Plane-Jane, do tell more!