Comments on: Keeping My Boyfriend Sexually Attracted http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Thu, 26 Aug 2010 20:54:23 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: kernow http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-150446 kernow Mon, 27 Jul 2009 13:45:37 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-150446 I don't think anyone should feel forced to go beyond their comfort zone, but where there is trust and respect between you it is fun to try out new things. Just keep in mind that it should be enjoyable for both of you, not just him. I don’t think anyone should feel forced to go beyond their comfort zone, but where there is trust and respect between you it is fun to try out new things. Just keep in mind that it should be enjoyable for both of you, not just him.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-150396 Imaginary Diva Mon, 27 Jul 2009 04:18:16 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-150396 Liza, well, since we are now talking about my favourite subject of all..... SEX ..... it is really important to enjoy having sex with your partner. I must admit, I've bought myself how-to books.... and it was worth every penny I paid for :) Liza, well, since we are now talking about my favourite subject of all….. SEX ….. it is really important to enjoy having sex with your partner.

I must admit, I’ve bought myself how-to books…. and it was worth every penny I paid for :)

]]> By: kernow http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-150329 kernow Sun, 26 Jul 2009 11:57:07 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-150329 It makes me mad when people make stupid gereralisations about women, and it is just as unfair when people make generalisations about men. It makes me mad when people make stupid gereralisations about women, and it is just as unfair when people make generalisations about men.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-150265 justontime Sat, 25 Jul 2009 16:35:28 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-150265 Well put Kernow. Each of us needs to stop assuming that all men are the same and just focus on our own man and our own relationshp. Well put Kernow. Each of us needs to stop assuming that all men are the same and just focus on our own man and our own relationshp.

]]> By: kernow http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-150240 kernow Sat, 25 Jul 2009 15:57:41 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-150240 Men are all different, just as women are. It is unfair to brand them all as 'very sexual creatures of habbit'. Each man is a person with his own feelings, needs and desires. Don't assume you know what he wants, for a successful relationship you need to learn to listen to and please each other as individuals. Men are all different, just as women are. It is unfair to brand them all as ‘very sexual creatures of habbit’. Each man is a person with his own feelings, needs and desires. Don’t assume you know what he wants, for a successful relationship you need to learn to listen to and please each other as individuals.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-150145 Imaginary Diva Fri, 24 Jul 2009 15:59:47 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-150145 Liza, I think so too. Whether we (women) like it or not, or even feel that is unbiased, men are very sexual creatures of habit. Sometimes it's good to work on our bedroom techniques to prevent boredom from setting in. And, I think it will just mak it a more pleasurable experience for both involved. Liza, I think so too. Whether we (women) like it or not, or even feel that is unbiased, men are very sexual creatures of habit.

Sometimes it’s good to work on our bedroom techniques to prevent boredom from setting in. And, I think it will just mak it a more pleasurable experience for both involved.

]]> By: Justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-149626 Justontime Fri, 17 Jul 2009 21:51:26 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-149626 I don't agree with that saying, women want both and I think most men do too. I think Berlinlife is right about needing to avoid boredom. To get it right you need to work on good communication between you. I don’t agree with that saying, women want both and I think most men do too. I think Berlinlife is right about needing to avoid boredom. To get it right you need to work on good communication between you.

]]> By: Sharon http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-149586 Sharon Fri, 17 Jul 2009 10:04:28 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-149586 berlinlife06, what is that saying again? Women want more love and men want more sex..... I think we all see love a different way and expectations are a little bit different when it comes to connecting with your partner for life. berlinlife06, what is that saying again?

Women want more love and men want more sex….. I think we all see love a different way and expectations are a little bit different when it comes to connecting with your partner for life.

]]> By: Sagemother http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-19648 Sagemother Sun, 28 Dec 2008 20:47:26 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-19648 Scheduling. Regardless of the situation, when fantasies are concerned you have to schedule time for them, meaning you also avoid their fulfillment becoming the main feature of your relationship. IT may sound mechanical, but neither party should be expected to show the same enthusiasm for everything the other desires and finds pleasing. If you schedule a fantasy night, weekend, or vacation, you walk away from the "Scene" until it is time for it again. This way anyone who needs time away from it, has it, anyone who wants it, gets it, and the guess work that creates tension, is eliminated Scheduling.

Regardless of the situation, when fantasies are concerned you have to schedule time for them, meaning you also avoid their fulfillment becoming the main feature of your relationship.

IT may sound mechanical, but neither party should be expected to show the same enthusiasm for everything the other desires and finds pleasing.

If you schedule a fantasy night, weekend, or vacation, you walk away from the “Scene” until it is time for it again. This way anyone who needs time away from it, has it, anyone who wants it, gets it, and the guess work that creates tension, is eliminated

]]> By: chris1203 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html/comment-page-1#comment-18398 chris1203 Thu, 18 Dec 2008 16:01:34 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/08/keeping-my-boyfriend-sexually-attracted.html#comment-18398 You should never try to be anything you're not, but perhaps there's a compromise? Possibly you can play into his fantasy occasionally and he can play into yours. You should never try to be anything you’re not, but perhaps there’s a compromise? Possibly you can play into his fantasy occasionally and he can play into yours.

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