Comments on: Can a Relationship That Starts Out as an Affair Succeed? http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Sun, 07 Mar 2010 00:49:57 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Taggart http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-146322 Taggart Mon, 08 Jun 2009 12:55:16 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-146322 Definitely there are "lasting" relationships that began as affairs. I'd say that's partly because people change over time and in some cases found themselves in relationships that weren't strong enough to last. Some people get together for the wrong reasons. Definitely there are “lasting” relationships that began as affairs. I’d say that’s partly because people change over time and in some cases found themselves in relationships that weren’t strong enough to last. Some people get together for the wrong reasons.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-146190 Imaginary Diva Sat, 06 Jun 2009 06:24:35 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-146190 Liza, LOL! You know, I worked for a boss before that left his wife for his secretary. When they got married I got her job after that and she had to come and check me out. She was around a lot of times after that :) Brings back really interesting memories. Liza, LOL! You know, I worked for a boss before that left his wife for his secretary. When they got married I got her job after that and she had to come and check me out. She was around a lot of times after that :)

Brings back really interesting memories.

]]> By: poster25 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-144860 poster25 Tue, 19 May 2009 14:50:08 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-144860 I think that what goes around comes around. The people in these types of relationships were made for one another. It is obvious that they do not have moral substance, so they should have the mindset to deal with each other perfectly. And if it does not work out, then they end up hurting themselves...Good! They had it coming. I think that what goes around comes around.

The people in these types of relationships were made for one another. It is obvious that they do not have moral substance, so they should have the mindset to deal with each other perfectly.

And if it does not work out, then they end up hurting themselves…Good! They had it coming.

]]> By: Katharina http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-141445 Katharina Wed, 08 Apr 2009 12:51:59 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-141445 I've heard that said so many times over the years... that if someone was willing to cheat with *you* they're probably the kind who would cheat ON you, too. That said, I really can't see why a relationship that started this way couldn't be a happy one if there's love involved. Tough call that depends on the individuals involved, I think. I’ve heard that said so many times over the years… that if someone was willing to cheat with *you* they’re probably the kind who would cheat ON you, too.

That said, I really can’t see why a relationship that started this way couldn’t be a happy one if there’s love involved. Tough call that depends on the individuals involved, I think.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-141376 justontime Tue, 07 Apr 2009 21:11:37 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-141376 Exactly, if he or she was happy to cheat on their partner with you, what is to stop them cheating on you in the future? Exactly, if he or she was happy to cheat on their partner with you, what is to stop them cheating on you in the future?

]]> By: kernow http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-141375 kernow Tue, 07 Apr 2009 21:08:47 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-141375 I don't think an affair is a good foundation to build a lasting relationship. If it involves lies and cheating in the first place that should raise big questions about this person as a life partner. I don’t think an affair is a good foundation to build a lasting relationship. If it involves lies and cheating in the first place that should raise big questions about this person as a life partner.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-19146 Imaginary Diva Wed, 24 Dec 2008 04:09:30 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-19146 Justontime, I'd feel the same way too. I'd probaly be watching him all the time to make sure he doesn't leave me for someone else. The truth is, it's probably my paranoia that is going to eventually drive him away. :) Justontime, I’d feel the same way too. I’d probaly be watching him all the time to make sure he doesn’t leave me for someone else.

The truth is, it’s probably my paranoia that is going to eventually drive him away. :)

]]> By: flowerhorn08 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-12792 flowerhorn08 Sun, 09 Nov 2008 05:23:48 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-12792 Even if the relationship that started out as an affair can last, wouldn't the third person has an conscience? Why would one want to destroy another couple marriage? Is there so few human beings on this earth left to choose as our life companion? Even if the relationship that started out as an affair can last, wouldn’t the third person has an conscience? Why would one want to destroy another couple marriage? Is there so few human beings on this earth left to choose as our life companion?

]]> By: Liza http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-12719 Liza Fri, 07 Nov 2008 14:13:40 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-12719 I heard of a man who cheated on his wife with his secretary, they eventually got married. The man was unable to keep a female secretary after that, his wife wouldn't allow him. ;-) I heard of a man who cheated on his wife with his secretary, they eventually got married. The man was unable to keep a female secretary after that, his wife wouldn’t allow him. ;-)

]]> By: berlinlife06 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html/comment-page-1#comment-12691 berlinlife06 Fri, 07 Nov 2008 02:40:17 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/06/can-a-relationship-that-starts-out-as-an-affair-succeed.html#comment-12691 I am a believer that "one a cheater, always a cheater" so I don't know if I could actually get into a relationship that started as an affair. I am a believer that “one a cheater, always a cheater” so I don’t know if I could actually get into a relationship that started as an affair.

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