Comments on: How Do You Define Cheating? http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Tue, 07 Feb 2012 00:32:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: nursing_papers http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-156578 nursing_papers Sun, 04 Oct 2009 19:42:24 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-156578 I also agree with Green-Moo definition of cheating. And cheating is so subjective that we all have definitions of what is right or wrong. I also agree with Green-Moo definition of cheating.
And cheating is so subjective that we all have definitions of what is right or wrong.

]]> By: deltic http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-140676 deltic Sun, 29 Mar 2009 19:57:27 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-140676 riskey58, I think you expressed that very well. Couples will have differnt ideas about boundaries and cheating, but if something is hidden from the other partner it is likely to be cause problems. riskey58, I think you expressed that very well. Couples will have differnt ideas about boundaries and cheating, but if something is hidden from the other partner it is likely to be cause problems.

]]> By: riskey58 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-140662 riskey58 Sun, 29 Mar 2009 15:18:33 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-140662 Trust issues are the worst and the biggest downfall to a relationship. I would have to agree that what constitutes cheating in a relationship can be different to each person. If you feel the need to hide something because you know in your heart it is wrong than to me that is basically your answer. Trust issues are the worst and the biggest downfall to a relationship. I would have to agree that what constitutes cheating in a relationship can be different to each person. If you feel the need to hide something because you know in your heart it is wrong than to me that is basically your answer.

]]> By: deltic http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-140604 deltic Sat, 28 Mar 2009 17:16:58 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-140604 Cheating is a breech of trust, if it is something tha is hidden from your other half and you wouldn't be happy to be found out, then it is cheating. Cheating is a breech of trust, if it is something tha is hidden from your other half and you wouldn’t be happy to be found out, then it is cheating.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-10559 justontime Thu, 02 Oct 2008 07:26:28 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-10559 That is true, everyone will have their own definition of cheating, but basically it is a breach of trust, and once lost it is very hard to rebuild trust. That is true, everyone will have their own definition of cheating, but basically it is a breach of trust, and once lost it is very hard to rebuild trust.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-10433 Imaginary Diva Tue, 30 Sep 2008 05:25:49 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-10433 Liza, you are right. Cheating is so subjective that we all have definitions of what is right or wrong. Liza, you are right. Cheating is so subjective that we all have definitions of what is right or wrong.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-9481 Imaginary Diva Thu, 11 Sep 2008 23:13:19 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-9481 justontime, I think you have stumbled on the concept that is important to all couples - and that is trust. If you have nothing to hide, then don't. It's only when you start to hide information becomes a sign that something is wrong and your partner will tune in to that. justontime, I think you have stumbled on the concept that is important to all couples – and that is trust.

If you have nothing to hide, then don’t. It’s only when you start to hide information becomes a sign that something is wrong and your partner will tune in to that.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-9034 Imaginary Diva Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:04:31 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-9034 mollyL, it's great that you are in a fantastic relationship! It really all comes down to two things - trust and objective. You trust him, and his objective for being friendly... is well, being friendly. There is no hidden agenda and it's transparent. mollyL, it’s great that you are in a fantastic relationship!

It really all comes down to two things – trust and objective.

You trust him, and his objective for being friendly… is well, being friendly. There is no hidden agenda and it’s transparent.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-8750 Imaginary Diva Sat, 30 Aug 2008 01:45:39 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-8750 SageMother, that's some declaration. I am not sure if I won't be able to handle not setting expectations on monogamy. SageMother, that’s some declaration.

I am not sure if I won’t be able to handle not setting expectations on monogamy.

]]> By: Liza http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/05/how-do-you-define-cheating.html/comment-page-1#comment-7748 Liza Sun, 27 Jul 2008 17:14:05 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=34#comment-7748 I agree with Green-Moo definition of cheating, because 'cheating' has become so subjective, everyone has their own understanding. I agree with Green-Moo definition of cheating, because ‘cheating’ has become so subjective, everyone has their own understanding.

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