If your man is cheating it’s likely because he is not getting it from you anymore or way to infrequently. Other areas in your relationship may be too good for him to want to leave. Friendship, companionship, children, property etc, etc. Sex is just one part of marriage but one of the most important parts to me. That’s my situation anyway. My wife has turned out to be a VERY good friend but doesn’t have any interest in sex anymore. If she still did I would have never even considered it. She is well aware of how important sex is to me too but nothing has improve just in that area in four years now. She asked me to promise to never leave her just because of the sex issues. The affair started unexpectedly as the result of some flirting on-line. Most women only want to flirt and have no intention of following through. When faced with the offer I had been without for over 6 weeks so I decided to try it.

Yes, it has been messy, but really HOT too. She said she only wanted sex and I warned her that every woman I have ever made love to wanted to marry me soon after. Well it happened again and guilt, jealousy and frustration are all a part of it too. Much more complicated than I could ever imagine.

Well, my wife prob knows because she just got serious about losings weight and has been buying me big gifts over the last few months. Total has been about 20K since the beginning of the year. I think the mistress is needing to be more than the other women so i have encouraged her to start looking more for someone. The every other day sex has been nice but I expect it will be ending soon. That will be loss but a relief at the same time.

PS. I don’t buy gifts for women they buy them for me. LOL

I think some people find this arrangement gives them a power over the relationship.