Comments on: Dating the Married Man

By: aroundtheblock

aroundtheblock — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 04:30:32 +0000

Men naturally are polygamous — throughout history and across cultures decent and honorable men have had as many wives/sexual partners as their status and wealth permitted. Not true for women — multiple sexual partners at the same time is always emotional cheating for them. Christianity changed the rules — one wife, but also no sex outside of marriage and no divorce. Now that society has rejected Christian sexual morality, is it any wonder more and more married men reject the rule that they are the only men who cannot have sexual variety?

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:06:40 +0000

SageMother, LOL.

By: Taggart

Taggart — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 13:04:18 +0000

There are many different kinds of people out there, and for some reason some of them seem to be drawn to people who are already attached.

I think some people find this arrangement gives them a power over the relationship.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 07:43:16 +0000

Liza, I must add…. that when your partner is with someone else and you are the “other” person in the relationship… and they give you any type of excuse as to why they will not leave their current partner for you…. that just means they don’t want to leave their current relationship.

They just want to have their cake and ice cream at the same time. Why have only one when they can have both?

By: theotherside

theotherside — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 02:25:43 +0000

I dont think its fair to blame everything on the other woman. The guy actually needs to add more effort to make all these happen. They have to make up stories, lie to their wife and sneak out. If the guy does not want to do so, the girl cant force him.
Im glad so many ladies here saying that they wont do that, but there are tons of ppl out there, if the guy is not faithful and mess around, he could probably find one somewhere , i didn’t mean that its ok for men to cheat. Its the fact that the problem is not just on the woman, the guy is the one who master both parties, his wife and the other girl.

By: tater03

tater03 — Sun, 31 May 2009 14:56:59 +0000

Sadly what you went through is how it generally works out. You are left to pick up the pieces of your life and he hops right back into his marriage. Hopefully his wife made him regret it.

By: The Other Woman

The Other Woman — Fri, 29 May 2009 19:21:18 +0000

At least I learned my lesson within a short space of time. I woke up.

By: gladys

gladys — Fri, 29 May 2009 14:03:22 +0000

The other woman you are definitely right! After my husband left his other woman we are happier than ever and he is sweeter than ever..

By: The Other Woman

The Other Woman — Fri, 29 May 2009 06:56:16 +0000

By the way the hard lesson I learned was this can only end in tears – everyone else was right. Don’t go for it you will regret it.

By: The Other Woman

The Other Woman — Fri, 29 May 2009 06:54:48 +0000

What I can’t stand is the way married men will go back to their wife and act as if you never existed. I broke up with the married man I was seeing, but I still have to see him around with his wife. He looks even happier than ever.. It crushes me because I wish I was the one, but I have learned a very hard lesson. I never told him that I loved him. I sometimes want to text or call him again but he is not chasing me so pursuing this any further would just make me feel even more humiliated.. No thanks.