Comments on: Suspicious Number? Your Partner is Probably Cheating http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Mon, 05 Jul 2010 10:48:39 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Katharina http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-142586 Katharina Tue, 21 Apr 2009 12:32:32 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-142586 That's not too simplistic at all... that's exactly what I'd do. If a business answered, great... I'd be relieved. Not sure what I'd do if a woman answered... maybe say that I'm calling for [insert guy's name here] and it's imperative she call him right away. He'd then know something was up and probably soon figure out that he's busted. "A woman called me and said I needed to get in touch with you right away!" Oooh, is that too tricky? :-) That’s not too simplistic at all… that’s exactly what I’d do. If a business answered, great… I’d be relieved.

Not sure what I’d do if a woman answered… maybe say that I’m calling for [insert guy's name here] and it’s imperative she call him right away. He’d then know something was up and probably soon figure out that he’s busted.

“A woman called me and said I needed to get in touch with you right away!” Oooh, is that too tricky? :-)

]]> By: kernow http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-142578 kernow Tue, 21 Apr 2009 09:52:24 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-142578 Perhaps I am being too simplistic, but if I found a suspicious number I think I would be tempted to work out a cover story and ring it, or maybe I would get someone else to do it for me. I don't think I would use one of these companies. Perhaps I am being too simplistic, but if I found a suspicious number I think I would be tempted to work out a cover story and ring it, or maybe I would get someone else to do it for me. I don’t think I would use one of these companies.

]]> By: Katharina http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-142527 Katharina Mon, 20 Apr 2009 13:29:21 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-142527 Good point, GreenMoo... I think that one of the first red flags would definitely be a change in behavior. Good point, GreenMoo… I think that one of the first red flags would definitely be a change in behavior.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-142520 justontime Mon, 20 Apr 2009 11:26:05 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-142520 That was an interesting article, it is a pity that when someone is suffering the shock and betrayal of cheating, they cam be ripped of by companies out to make money out of them. That was an interesting article, it is a pity that when someone is suffering the shock and betrayal of cheating, they cam be ripped of by companies out to make money out of them.

]]> By: chris1203 http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-20553 chris1203 Sun, 11 Jan 2009 16:09:16 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-20553 It's amazing that such an obvious way to find out that your spouse is cheating has been so overlooked by so many! It’s amazing that such an obvious way to find out that your spouse is cheating has been so overlooked by so many!

]]> By: Green-Moo http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-6458 Green-Moo Sun, 11 May 2008 17:14:36 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-6458 I think if my partner suddenly made any sudden change in his behaviour I'd want to know why. It may not mean an affair, but anything that triggers a behavioural change like that is something I'd want to know more about. I think if my partner suddenly made any sudden change in his behaviour I’d want to know why. It may not mean an affair, but anything that triggers a behavioural change like that is something I’d want to know more about.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-6421 Imaginary Diva Thu, 08 May 2008 22:33:22 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-6421 Green-Moo, good point there. He's not even the shopping at the supermarket type. I'd really start to worry if all of a sudden he decides to volunteer to do our grocery shopping! Green-Moo, good point there. He’s not even the shopping at the supermarket type. I’d really start to worry if all of a sudden he decides to volunteer to do our grocery shopping!

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-6287 Imaginary Diva Wed, 30 Apr 2008 21:49:48 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-6287 Green-Moo, see that is a man with nothing to hide! I say that once your significant other starts hiding their phone bills and starts whispering on the phone if you are in the other room, it's time to really start snooping around. Green-Moo, see that is a man with nothing to hide!

I say that once your significant other starts hiding their phone bills and starts whispering on the phone if you are in the other room, it’s time to really start snooping around.

]]> By: Green-Moo http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-6262 Green-Moo Wed, 30 Apr 2008 09:40:12 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-6262 So, Imaginary-Diva, your husband would be safe from detection if you started meeting his fancy woman at the supermarket?! I'm joking!! So, Imaginary-Diva, your husband would be safe from detection if you started meeting his fancy woman at the supermarket?! I’m joking!!

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2007/04/suspicious-number-your-partner-is.html/comment-page-1#comment-6195 Imaginary Diva Mon, 28 Apr 2008 17:55:45 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=28#comment-6195 amc, Don't beat yourself up over it. You trusted him, because in a relationship you are supposed to trust the person you are with. It's very sad that he took advantage of your unsuspicious nature and decided to have an affair. I'm sure though that this whole experience has made you wary and it's even ok to be looking at his cell phone bill more closely from now on. Broken trust can't be easily given back. amc,

Don’t beat yourself up over it. You trusted him, because in a relationship you are supposed to trust the person you are with. It’s very sad that he took advantage of your unsuspicious nature and decided to have an affair.

I’m sure though that this whole experience has made you wary and it’s even ok to be looking at his cell phone bill more closely from now on. Broken trust can’t be easily given back.

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