Comments on: When Cheating Happens – Is Saying Sorry Enough

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:29:36 +0000

I know that whether or not the cheating partner says “I’m sorry,” infidelity causes deep wounds that are not easily healed.

By: justontime

justontime — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 07:29:50 +0000

That is true, words matter, saying sorry is important but in the end what you do matters most.

By: kernow

kernow — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 07:15:31 +0000

In the end it is what you do that speaks loudest, but saying sorry is a starting point.

By: Katharina

Katharina — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 20:27:43 +0000

I’m not sure if saying they’re sorry is enough or not, but I do know that once the trust is gone, saying “oops, sorry” may be moot.

By: kernow

kernow — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 18:25:34 +0000

Saying sorry is not enough, but it is a start. Showing that the apology is genuine and that they are not just sorry for being caught is a much longer process.

By: Justontime

Justontime — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 19:10:27 +0000

I didn’t find the article patronising. I thought it made some very good points, and the practical advice was helpful.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 17:38:43 +0000

trick-r-treat, I still don’t understand why people would enjoy cheating when they end up hurting others that truly care for them.

I know that some like the “thrill” of evading getting caught… but what does that tell you about their character?

By: trick-r-treat

trick-r-treat — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:05:48 +0000

I think that some people learn from their mistakes. Others may have just discovered something different about themselves and then decide that they enjoy cheating, and keep it up until they get caught or dumped, whichever comes first.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 16:23:41 +0000

Green-Moo, I’m sure there are more types than that and I probably might run out of space here if I posted it.

From reading it, it’s more of she’s giving examples of the most common types of cheaters.

By: Green-Moo

Green-Moo — Mon, 31 Mar 2008 06:37:22 +0000

Perhaps it was just me, but I found the tone of this article very patronising. The only good thing about it was recognising that all cheaters are different, though i’m not sure that you can divide them into only two types.