This may be the most important article you\’ll read about dealing with your husband\’s affair. There\’s plenty of information available on what to do if your husband is cheating. But very little has been written about the things you shouldn\’t do.

Your husband is cheating. You\’re not sure what to do. Before wrestling with that decision, let\’s focus first on what you SHOULDN\’T do. Most women react blindly when they find out their husbands are having an affair. They let fear, anger, hurt, or a desire for revenge compel them to do things they later regret — things which make it difficult or impossible to implement any worthwhile infidelity advice they may later receive.

This article will keep you from making a mistake that could sabotage the course of action you eventually decide to take. Regardless of whether you decide to leave your husband or stay with him and try to work things out, doing the wrong thing at the outset can make a bad situation worse. Let\’s look at 5 key things you SHOULDN\’T do and examine the reasons why.

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The dictionary defines cheating as: \”To violate rules deliberately\” and \”To act dishonestly; practice fraud.\” When someone \”…violate rules\” and \”…act dishonestly\” people tend to stop trusting the person who caused the violation of trust. Trust is one of the most important aspects of any relationship and a broken trust is hard to mend and certainly never forgotten. While men and women may occasionally glance at someone other than their loved one, most do not act on the impulse of visual stimulation and it remains just a brief moment of looking at someone else. (That doesn\’t make it right; it\’s just a natural response to beauty. A brief glance is different than turning around to look JFI.)

Cheating is the worst violation of trust in a relationship and is the cause of many break-ups. Why do people cheat? There are many reasons that are usually given, none of which excuse the dishonest act and erase the memory of it, nor are they valid excuses for lacking in character.