Comments on: Women in Love and Relationships – How to Let Go

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 04:50:08 +0000

mollyL, I think that is why we try so hard to end things well… or to have that “closure” and walk away understanding why.

If it ends, it just has to end.

By: CANDIE

CANDIE — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 19:07:40 +0000

I have just let go of someone who I loved and he broke up with me. I believe it was mutual and very sad considering the fun we shared. I think the pain comes from the fact that I feel I was lied to…i love you baby!! Probably he just used me for sex and I feel stupid for believing him. I can move on but it will be hard. All alone again!!

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 22:21:20 +0000

Liza, it’s always good to work on your mistakes to make yourself a better person.

However, I’ve also seen it that the cheating partner grasps at straws when they are caught. This includes saying that there is something wrong with their partner when there really isn’t.

I know this girl and her husband cheated on her. He told her that she wasn’t sexual enough that’s why he left her. And the poor girl is trying her hardest by taking all these classes to make her be more sexy so that she doesn’t come across this problem again in her future relationship.

But, there really was no problem. He was just saying that so that blame can be transferred to her.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 20:32:42 +0000

SageMother, that is very sound advice.

We often think about the good times that we sometimes get sidetrack as to why this breakup is a good thing.

By starting on the why’s and making a list, will definitely get you started on the right path.

By: mollyL

mollyL — Sun, 10 Aug 2008 21:58:52 +0000

The best advice in the article was this, and I am paraphrasing: even if you would like for the relationship to end well, it may not be possible. It ends when it ends, and trying to end well is like not letting go. Let go, take solace if you tried your best or forget it if you didn’t. You’re done.

By: Liza

Liza — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:37:36 +0000

I like to know what the problems are in a relationship because if the fault is mine, I like to work on them to become a better person for my next relationship.

By: SageMother

SageMother — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 13:59:14 +0000

One of the best ways to let go is to sit down and list all of the activities and goals that were displaced by your relationship. Choosing a couple to get started on can ease the transition.