After all, Houston is the author of an infidelity book packed with hundreds of cheating signs that suspicious spouses and significant others can find on their own.
Catching a Cheater Without Help
Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs documents practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. All of the signs can be found using nothing more than one’s own eyes and ears, their personal knowledge of their mate, and the information in Houston’s book.
Private Eyes Rarely Recommended
“Normally I don’t advocate the use of private investigators to catch cheating mates,” says Houston. “I’ve seen too many people spend hundreds — even thousands of dollars on infidelity investigations, only to come up empty, with nothing to show for all the money they’ve spent.”
The Exception - Valentine’s Day
“But Valentine’s Day is an exception. It’s one of the few times I recommend using an investigator, because you can get maximum results for minimum expense.
Houston, the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, explains that Valentine’s Day is unique because cheaters everywhere are either buying or receiving Valentine’s gifts.
Exposed by Valentine’s Day Gifts
According to the National Retail Federation, Americans will spend at least $13 billion this year on Valentine’s gifts. Houston says that a significant portion of that money will be spent by cheaters buying gifts for their secret lovers.
Houston says, “Any cheating husband or boyfriend who wants to stay in his lover’s good graces, (and in her bed) has to buy her a gift. More than likely that gift will be delivered in person — if not on Valentine’s Day, then the day after or the day before.
The Best Time to Get Proof
Houston continues , “If you’ve been suspecting your spouse or significant other of infidelity for quite some time now, and have been unable to get proof, (because you haven’tread my book) then this is the time to make your move.”
Keep Costs Down
“If you can afford to hire a private investigator to follow your mate,” says Houston, ” do it around Valentine’s Day. You’re almost certain to get the proof you need at a fraction of the usual cost. Since you only need the investigator’s services for 1 to 3 days, you can avoid running up a big bill.
More Ways to Cut Costs
“You can further reduce your costs to a few hours time, if you can pinpoint the window of opportunity when your spouse or significant other is most likely to make contact with his or her lover. - lunch time, before work, after work, late at night when they think you’re asleep. You probably already have a pretty good idea of when that might be.”
Book Early
Houston suggests booking your time early, since Valentine’s Day or Valentine’s week is the busiest time of the year for private investigators who specialize in infidelity investigations.
If You Can’t Afford a Private Eye
Those who can’t afford to hire a reputable private investigator, or don’t want to take the time to track one down, can request Houston’s free tip sheet with detailed information on the 21 major categories of infidelity signs. E-mail InfidelityInfo @ gmail.com with “21 categories” in the subject line.
About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of Infidelity Advice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, which documents practically every known sign of infidelity. Frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, Ruth has been quoted in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, Newsday, the New York Post, the Toronto Sun, Cosmopolitan, the Chicago Tribune, the San Francisco Chronicle, MSN Lifestyle, iVillage, Reuters, UPI and numerous other print and online media. Ruth has been a guest on The Today Show, Good Day New York, Telemundo, BBC, CBC, CNN, 1010WINS, Sirius Satellite Radio, Ireland’s Late Late Show, Court TV Radio and over 270 radio and TV talk shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, New Zealand, Australia and the Caribbean. For a list of free infidelity tip sheets and special reports, visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com
To interview Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com
Unless you’re after a divorce settlement, then I don’t understand why someone would be so keen to ‘prove’ that they’re spouse is cheating. If you suspect that they’re cheating, then there’s soemthing wrong in your relationship & either you sort it out or you don’t. Proving your theory doesn’t really make any difference! At least, that’s my take on it!
Green-Moo, you are so right about that.
Sometimes we get lost in the process. And we got lost in the anger of the situation that we forget that we really just have two choices - sort it out or let it go.
I think most persons know when their spouse is getting distracted whether it is by work or someone else, so as you guys said deal with it, is the relationship worth saving? Make a choice.
I can understand wanting proof of infidelity.
It helps ground your suspicions so that you don’t keep doubting your sanity.
Sometimes the clues can be misleading, for the past few months I have been working to meet a deadline, I have told my spouse about it, but when he picks me up at nights, another guy usually gets a ride with us. In some circumstances this could be interpreted another way.
Liza, that’s true. Usually, you do get the “tell-tale” signs that your partner is cheating….
But what if he or she constantly tells you that you are wrong, or even paranoid? Sooner or later, you are going to need some solid proof.
If you have your doubts and suspect cheating but your partner just tells you that you are paranoid, you have to make a decision. Something about the relationship must be wrong, do you really want to spend your savings to prove you are right? I know some people would need absolute proof and it’s good that this sort of service is available, but I think I would hang on to my money.
SageMother, our society is based on having “proof” when making decisions that can affect their future.
I’m not sure that’s true Imaginary Diva, we don’t have proof that someone loves us or that we love someone, it is an abstract feeling. Their actions may be loving and thoughtful but we don’t have ‘proof’. Doubt is also an abstract feeling, so is trust. If my partner’s behaviour had caused me to doubt and then to lose trust, I don’t think I would need ‘proof’ I would know that what we had was gone.
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